Hi May Hemm: I found your recent essay about phone sex posted on Medium informative and provocative. I admire anyone, especially a woman, who steps out to publish information that challenges standard norms, and who says things that make the "proper" element of society cringe. Of course, as you may know, men have always been steeped in fantasies of their sexual obsessions, but will not expose themselves to writing out these desires in fear of being chastised and disdained by their peers. Unless they are the Hugh Hefners and Larry Flints of the world, who make their living from the exploitation of women who appeal to these fantasies. Thanks for sharing. Regards