Hi, Tita. Sometimes it is possible for narratives that do not serve us well are acceptable. For example, when we look to helping others instead of ourselves. Think of soldiers, police, firemen, first responders, doctors and nurses who put ther lives on the line to protect us. Think of leaders, such as Martin Luther King, Nelson Mandela, Mahatma Gandhi who sacrificed to benefit the less fortunate. Occasionally, there comes a time when we must disregard our personal desires to stand up to injustice, offer acts of kindness to the indigent, and turn our anger into flowers. Please note, I am not saying it is easy. Regards